A: This FREE site was created in response to all the bogus information circulating about male culture and manhood. From hypersensitive, politically correct men's rights forums to poorly educated "Pickup Artists" and their feminist-based philosophies, there's a giant mess of hypocritical, confusing, contradictory teachings out there about the subject of Manhood. The average guy seeking answers to the questions of his masculinity doesn't stand a chance.

We made this site for you-- men looking for answers about their role in society, how to attract the opposite sex, how to improve their social life and how to form relationships that meet their needs. We address your male identity in this Feminist society, protecting your rights as a man and a host of other issues facing you today.

Our goals:

1. Expose Feminism: On the surface, feminism appears to be concerned with equal rights for women. But in reality, this dangerous social philosoophy has damaged the proper relationship structure between men and women.
2. Retrain men: Too many men have been emasculated by Feminism. They don't know how to lead women, socialize with other men, make decisions, meet their needs or stand up to the emasculating "bitch" behavior of dysfunctional women. By retraining men to effectively wield their authority, we hope to improve their lives and make them effective leaders.
3. Retrain women: Too many women have been cheated by Feminism. They have been erroneously taught to compete with men and usurp male authority. This completely neglects the importance of fulfilling different gender functions, which are meant to complement rather than than compete with each other; men should be in charge of women as a means of caring for female needs while women should be submissive to men as a means of caring for male needs. Feminism betrays women by teaching them that adopting male functions and becoming "equal" to men will improve their lives. But it fails to warn them that such a strategy will not only undermine the attractiveness and value of women, but also inhibit men's ability to properly care for women. By teaching women the value of fulfilling functional gender roles and observing healthy gender restrictions, we aim to raise their quality of life.
4. Support male culture: Only healthy, happy men are in a position to properly care for others. But this proves difficult when our Feminist society constantly degrades the value of men, demonizes male sexuality and belittles our masculine role in relationships. Men need a community of their own to support and stand behind them. We are building that community of competent men today. We need you!

A: Contemporary resources shed little light on the subject of Manhood. The internet, popular publications and current role models all fail to warn young men that neglecting their masculinity can devastate their lives. While many explanations attempt to define masculinity, insight into its essential components remains largely unexplored. As a result, understanding manhood becomes impossible.

This site clears up the confusion surrounding Manhood while avoiding impotent sentiments and slogans characteristic of today’s irresponsible perspective.

Contemporary self-help culture floods men with sexist sound bite solutions to their social interaction problems. Overly complex dating rules catering to women, contradicting advice, not to mention impractical religious definitions of manhood confuse and frustrate those looking for answers. Even worse, most emasculated men casually mock and twist their own ideal gender identity into a fashionable stereotype of Neanderthal chest-beating and unrestrained sexual appetites. Such blind characterizations neither help the younger generation develop their masculine identity or free the older generation from their emasculated perspective.

Most men's rights groups, men's self-help guides, pickup artist forums and other male-oriented publications poorly address the question of Manhood. Many are simply cash-based businesses designed to milk your wallet. So we're here to clear away the bullshit. We give you the right information and leave everything open to public scrutiny.

Unlike the hordes of con artists out there, attempting to capitalize on your socialization failures, we will NOT hide behind false claims and calculated self-promotion. And we will never charge you for this information.

But don't take our word for it. Judge for yourself. Ask other men in our community how Manhood 101 has affected their lives. Find out from those who have trained with us personally.

A: We are against Feminism because it actually works AGAINST women.

On the surface, Feminism claims to care about "equal" rights. But in reality, all it does it foster animosity between the genders by teaching men and women to neglect their functional gender roles. This damages the proper relationship structure between men and women.

Feminism is a self-serving philosophy that teaches women to feel ENTITLED to everything that men have had to earn; women feel ENTITLED to the same pay as men without working the same hours or in the same dangerous jobs as men. When dating, women feel ENTITLED to a man's income while hypocritically claiming to be "strong and independent." Women feel ENTITLED to male authority and autonomy while conveniently hiding behind the banner of traditional roles--men are accused of not acting like "gentlemen" if they don't give women their way.

In short, Feminism teaches women they can have their cake and eat it too. As a result, women feel they can have authority without being responsible for anything they say or do. This of course undermines the entire point of authority.

Manhood 101 actually HELPS women more than Feminism ever could because, unlike Feminism, we recognize that women need to submit to male authority rather than compete with it, in order to be happy.

We can illustrate this healthy need for submission using our own government. As citizens, we agree to submit to our government, not as a matter of oppression, but as a means to serve and meet our needs; our government is designed to provide us with necessary resources and protections. In turn, it requires our healthy submission. We must submit to the laws of our government in order to allow it to meet our needs. Our cooperation is required. And when we do cooperate, we are made happy because of our submission; when we obey the laws governing us, our government can do it's job and meet our needs.

In like manner, male authority is not meant to oppress or degrade women. It does not remove their personality or turn them into slaves. Law-abiding citizens submitting to the authority of a functional government can attest to that fact. On the contrary, healthy male authority provides necessary security, resources and protection to those submitting to it. Positions of authority are necessary to serve and protect those submitting to that authority.

We teach men how to use their authority to properly care for women, whereas Feminism teaches women to usurp the very authority required to serve their interests. Just as children overthrowing their parent's authority would prove to be a fatal mistake, Feminism today has already proven that women who seek to compete with male authority actually produce the vast majority of crime.

Feminism criticizes male authority, yet hypocritically vilifies men for being unable to properly care for women. We can't expect men to fulfill their functional duty to women with their hands systematically tied by Feminism's legal stranglehold on our society. The skyrocketing divorce rate perfectly illustrates Feminism's misguided and dangerous social agenda.

Feminists often make the mistake of confusing healthy gender distinctions for misogyny. This response stems from a fundamental misunderstanding of the relationship between function and value.

All humans possess the capacity to fulfill certain gender-specific functions. This makes them valuable. When anything functions according to its design, it becomes valuable.

But many fail to express their design capacity. Thus, their value to others remains unrealized. This can be illustrated by a simple analogy:

If you use a screwdriver as a hammer, you are abusing its function. As a result, it will be very difficult to build anything. The screwdriver is being dysfunctionally applied. Thus, it provides no value.

You may be tempted to get angry at the screwdriver; however, the problem isn’t with the screwdriver itself but rather the way it’s being used. It was never intended to become a hammer.

To remedy this situation, the screwdriver must be used according to its original design so that its proper function can be realized. Then it becomes valuable. Likewise, when people function according to their design, they become valuable.

Men need to realize that their gender is under attack. Demonized and emasculated by Feminism, today's males habitually sacrifice their interests in the name of "equality"; however, this behavior is not an inherent flaw but rather a result of Feminism's ignorant perversion of proper gender functions. Hence, you should not be discouraged by your own dysfunctional condition, which has crippled your ability to attract or properly care for women.

Neither should women be viewed as lesser beings just because of their dysfunctional behavior. Instead, as with your own condition, you should focus on the source of dysfunction instead of being distracted by its effects.

Although a very small percentage of women are beyond help, the vast majority simply need proper male authority in their lives. I say this from firsthand experience. The testimony of men around the world also confirms this fact.

Both genders exhibit dysfunctional behavior, not by choice, but as a consequence of Feminism’s dangerous social conditioning. The damaging effects of Feminism must be addressed before proper relations can be restored between the genders and their complementary value to each other can be realized. 

A: This site avoids politically correct euphemisms as a rule of thumb.

Because Feminism emphasizes making dysfunctional women and emasculated men feel good at the cost of their own welfare, self-righteous attitudes and hypersensitivities now supersede common sense; preserving a woman's self-esteem takes on a higher priority than diagnosing her actual condition.

Likewise, excusing a man's emasculated behavior becomes more important that building his character. Yet, without exposing their conditions, the ugly truth remains hidden.

The truth always offends those unwilling or unable to hear it. Many live in great fear of having their actual condition exposed to the world. Most people commonly deny and distort their actual condition to escape the painful reality of their situation.

When feeling good takes precedence over telling the truth, people inevitably end up preserving their self-esteem at the cost of their own welfare.

Today, a majority of mental health "experts" advocate this type of feel-good approach to self discovery. As a result, society has become increasingly adverse to any critical examination of its behavior. This causes the average person to unconsciously devise ways to hide his dysfunctional behavior.

Political correctness is one of the most pervasive forms of these self-defense mechanisms. By vilifying words and ideas that would normally expose dysfunction, self-serving ideologies like Feminism are allowed to harm society under the ruse of good intentions. Under such a system, honest analysis of our lives becomes impossible.

Without the capacity of words to expose the problem, the ugly truth remains hidden. Thus, to be effective, this site will not highlight your strengths or coddle you with useless platitudes. Instead, it focuses on exposing the common excuses used to justify dysfunctional behavior—behavior that inhibits successful social interaction.

E.g., fat people often take offense when negatively judged for their appearance. Yet, instead of taking responsibility for their dysfunctional eating habits or lack of exercise, fat people find it less painful if their critics are vilified as "hateful."

As this professional victim-mentality becomes entrenched in our culture, it provides the basis for shaping public opinion. Now, fearing legal reprisals, society undermines its own integrity by creating fat-friendly euphemisms. It adopts ad campaigns designed to absolve fat people of any blame. No longer do they have to feel bad about their appearance.

Clothiers are pressured to tailor their fashions to accommodate dysfunctional body sizes. Feminists lobby the government to create a protected interest group for fat people. Legislation is proposed to ban "doctors from pressing patients to slim down." Sensible condemnation of obesity is now demonized as "hate speech."

Under Feminism's politically correct stranglehold, people have become truth-adverse. They’d rather suffer silently than face their humiliating condition. In short, everything is done to ensure the preservation of the self-esteem.

The only way to break this dysfunctional cycle is to tell the truth; candid expression functions as the enemy of irresponsibility. It does not allow unhealthy perspectives to remain unexposed. Only language free of self-serving euphemisms and vilifying mischaracterizations can effectively diagnose our real condition.

Yet our Feminist society condemns candid expression as offensive, hateful and dangerous. It claims that we only mature through rewards and encouragement (read: bribery) while deeming punishment and candor to be barbaric relics of a patriarchal society.

This philosophy has been put to the test over the last half century, and its fruits are telling:

• A debilitating recession, caused largely by irresponsible borrowing
• Subsidized, state-sanctioned single-mother households producing the majority of today’s criminals and troubled youths
• A nationally failing school system
• Online social networks facilitating a culture of narcissism
• America now officially the fattest nation in the world
• America leading the world in rate of incarceration

And the list goes on...

Political correctness does more to corrupt the integrity of our word than heal the bruises of our insensitivity. It prohibits us from learning from our failures while encouraging us to fall victim to the emasculating effects of Feminism. As the more responsible gender, men are obligated to say resist this malicious ideology. As those possessing the greater capacity to speak the truth, men should do so whenever possible.

A: While the term "authority" still remains acceptable in modern vernacular, its necessary polarity, "submission," has lost its proper context. It has become a politically incorrect term associated with a fashionably vilified patriarchal system.

Merriam-Webster dictionary defines "submitting" as:

1. : to yield oneself to the authority or will of another : surrender b : to permit oneself to be subjected to something [had to submit to surgery]
2. : to defer to or consent to abide by the opinion or authority of another

But today, as a result of Feminism's irresponsible mischaracterization of this word, women believe that submission results in a complete loss of identity, personality and choice.

Feminism misleads society into believing women will be abused if they submit to male authority. Submission is made synonymous with slavery. Cooking and cleaning are deemed evil relics of the patriarchal system. Housewives are viewed as inferior women and mocked for their naivety. Their husbands are vilified as crude, cruel misogynists. Yet, the following analogy illustrates the irresponsible and unfounded nature of these claims:

As a citizen of any sovereign nation, you must submit to a governing authority designed to provide for your welfare. To accomplish this, your country passes laws meant to safeguard your interests. These laws must then be enforced to maintain order.

If you exceed the speed limit, you endanger the welfare of people whom the State is legally obligated to protect. To fulfill its responsibility, the State must use its authority to execute a punishment (e.g., fine, jail) against you. This causes you to fear violating the law. Since your submission is vital to maintaining order, the State requires you to submit to its governing authority.

Authority enforces the law and submission obeys it—both are equally necessary to a properly functioning government or any healthy relationship. Without either, it is impossible to maintain order.

Obeying the laws of the State does not suppress your identity or remove all freedoms, but it is necessary protect your interests. In the same way, a woman submitting to her husband's governing authority doesn't remove her identity or mean she is no longer free. On the contrary, her submission places her in a proper position to receive her husband's care and protection. The 'freedom' she loses is her ability to do things without restriction, just as citizens of a nation lose their 'freedom' to exceed the speed limit or steal from others.

When people vilify authority or submission, they are really speaking about their selfish interest in becoming wild anarchists who have the 'freedom' to hurt others without regard.

Absolute, unrestricted freedom is very dangerous to any society, just as absolute, unrestricted freedom is dangerous to any relationship; today, for the first time in history, there are more single people than married people because the divorce rate is so high. This is a testament to the dysfunctional nature of Feminism which encourages women to "break the laws" of a healthy relationship, leading to anarchy in their romantic lives.

But even Feminists themselves are hard-pressed to ignore their own gender design as The Frisky’s writer/editor, Jessica Wakeman, reveals:

"[Women] want to be dominated: Even big-mouthed ballsy women like me enjoy being dominated! Yet dominating a woman scares a lot of men because they are afraid — rightfully so — of being rape-y. But with tons of trust and communication, she’ll be creaming her panties in no time!"

Wakeman initially admits her own ignorance of gender function:

"I look back now and see that [the men I dated] realized I loved [submitting] long before I did."

But she later shares a valuable realization:

"...it was [his authority]... He had [an authoritative] personality. He could be fearless and decisive. He could be a leader. He could be stern and take charge when he needed to. He was protective... [He] dominated me in bed all the time, of course. But outside of bed, which was starting to feel like catnip in this new, weird way, I always felt 'safe' with him because of the way he took charge."

Yes, even hardcore Feminists, who routinely condemn authoritative men as "controlling" and "abusive," admit that submitting to a man feels right. And as Jessica confesses, it even feels pleasurable:

"I’ve been pretty open about my own enjoyment [...] I promise you, lots of women really like it."

"... the idea of [submitting to a man] aroused me more than I had ever felt before. [...] I was horny constantly. And I mean constantly. Never before in my life have I experienced such weeks-long periods of horniness! [...] [he] was not abusive. I was not being hurt, nor was I unhappy. We were in a dominant/submissive relationship — or playing at one, anyway — and [submitting to his authority] got me unbelievably, unbelievably turned on."

In fact, the significance of female submission is even backed by scientific studies such as the one conducted in 1973 by researcher and therapist E. Barbara Hariton. During interviews with women, Hariton discovered that the most common fantasy involved being "forcefully taken" by a man. Such scientific observations and many others like it confirm the functional desire expressed by women to be led by male authority.

Author, Susannah Breslin, further confirms women’s innate desire to submit to male authority by giving dating tips to men that emphasize the importance of male authority in relationships:

“Take Charge. We do not want to decide where to go. We will never tell you this, but it is true."

"...We are interested in how you portray yourself. Act confident, interested, engaged, self-assured, ambitious, and happy. We like that."

"...Feminism, shmeminism. [Remember when we said we were 'strong and independent' and didn't need a man to take care of us?] We lied..."

Yet even with vast amounts of evidence to the contrary, Feminism still seduces women into believing that competing for male authority leads to greater happiness, noted in Wakeman’s own struggle with her functional gender role:

"...even though I liked the feeling of [submitting to a man], I felt conflicted about giving up my physical power, thinking [this] wasn’t something an independent and opinionated woman should enjoy. Just how, I fretted, could a partner take me seriously as a thinker, a doer, and a creator when I wanted to be submissive to him? What if people think I’m weird or screwed up?"

While it’s true that women today experience much more social freedom to speak and do as they wish, compared to women 100 years ago, they are also much more miserable as a result. As Psychology Today’s News Editor, Matthew Hutson, points out:

"A recent analysis of 20 studies over the last 30 years indicates that between 31% and 57% of women have [domination] fantasies, and these fantasies are frequent or preferred in 9% to 17% of women. Considering that [women are ashamed to report such] fantasies, these stats are most likely lowball figures."

Without men exercising functional authority over women, and without women functionally submitting to the authority of men, relationships eventually break down. The "fantasy" of submitting to an authoritative man cannot replace the reality of an emasculating culture that fails to meet the needs of women. By robbing men of their authority, Feminism simultaneously deprives women of healthy male leadership.

Freedom that comes at the cost of true happiness is meaningless; being shackled to Feminism’s deceitful ideology mocks the very purpose of personal liberation. Only when society begins to recognize the value of teaching females to submit to male authority can men and women truly enjoy the pleasure of being free.

A: Our community is quite different than any other you've encountered. We wholeheartedly welcome those with opposing viewpoints, even those who passionately hate us. You are freely welcome to disagree with anything said here, even vehemently. We only encouarge you to show integrity in your criticisms.

If you think we hate women, have the intellectual courage and honesty to state specifically why you believe this.

If you think we're wrong, be direct--point out our errors.

We've NEVER shrunk away from any criticism. On the contrary, we willingly embrace it for nothing valuable is ever gained from ideas or people who cannot withstand the all-important test of public scrutiny.

Of course, if you wish to participate anonymously, you can still comment as a "guest."

A: Yes the "Seduction Community" has tried to slander Manhood101.com with all types of ridiculous claims, from taking money to having sex with hippos, etc. But this is standard practice for this unscrupulous industry of con men. The Seduction Community is angry with us for exposing their various cash-based scams, critiquing their ineffective products and challenging their fraudulent information. In short, we are bad news for their unethical business practices. They are in the business of scamming unsuspecting guys. We expose the scam and offer much better content for FREE. Just like any competitor, they are getting DESPERATE and have now resorted to outright lying, hoping to discrediting us.

Manhood 101, on the other hand, HAS NEVER CHARGED A PENNY FOR ANYTHING TAUGHT HERE!. There is no shopping cart for products because we don't sell any. All of this information has always been and always will be FREE OF CHARGE! Although, we do accept donations from those wishing to support our work with men around the world, it's completely voluntary.

Unlike the Seduction Community, which charges you thousands of dollars before you actually get access to their phony products and shady content, we leave ALL OF OUR TEACHING open to public scrutiny for all to judge. We even invite those that disagree with us to debate our content in the forum because we believe in open, honest, public discussion of anything we teach. Our no-bullshit approach speaks for itself.

A: Most guys find out about the "Seduction Community" and then set out to learn the "how-to's" of The Game by browsing forums, buying ebooks and watching DVD's. They end up unnecessarily spending thousands of dollars over the long haul.

Let's say you want to go from California to New York in the fastest time possible. With classic seduction systems you don't get a clear, direct roadmap. Instead of driving a straight line to New York, you drive up to Washington, then down to Texas, and end up settling in Maryland.. because its 'GOOD ENOUGH'-- at least you ended up somewhere in the general vicinity. That should be good enough. Right?

Wrong.

OUR goal is to get you from California to New York DIRECTLY, so you don't have to just settle for what you can get. We define the map for you. Not only do we give you the clear, comprehensive and PRACTICAL approach to arriving at your destination, we also take apart your broken car and rebuild it into a FUNCTIONAL vehicle to take you where you are trying to go. This means we are not just here to give you a few corny pickup lines or fix a few holes in your Game. We're here to give you a TOTALLY DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE. We're going to show you what creates dating & relationship problems men, how to spot those problems and how the problem and solution are intimately related in a way that traditional seduction and pickup systems COMPLETELY NEGLECT.

The problem is that the current programs have fundamental flaws that will never get you to your true destination. As they say, "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." We're not saying the teachers out there are 'BAD PEOPLE.' But the material they teach will actually DAMAGE your potential in the long run. Why? Because it forces you to sacrifice your Manhood in order to obtain what you want. Principles are misapplied. Poorly designed, dysfunctional methods FAIL to address your real problem-- lack of authority. Instead, these programs only focus on addressing the countless symptoms generated. In the end, you end up like most guys-- spending all your money on women or sacrificing common sense, your integrity and your happiness just to get laid..

Sex isn't that great because you can't get it on a regular basis. Relationships aren't that fulfilling because you're at the mercy of other people's expectations. Most of your relationships are tenuous because you don't know how to take initiative to direct them on YOUR TERMS, and so on.. We want to stop this cycle before it repeats. We want give you a new guiding perspective to satisfy more than just your desire to get laid.

That's the goal of Manhood 101: To make you a FUNCTIONAL MAN again, to teach you what it means to BE an attractive person rather than merely learning to imitate what attractive people do. Your bag of lines and gimmicks will only get you so far...

Giving you the RIGHT road map is the first step.

The vast majority of our students have the same common experience with classic self-help and Pickup teachings. They tell us they "read all the ebooks, watched the DVDs, paid for the $2000 seminars," but in the end they STILL have "Approach Anxiety." They STILL don't know how to connect with women. They still let others walk all over them. They still don't know how to raise their expectations. They STILL don't know how to BE attractive. Why is that?....

It's not that these guys weren't trying. It's the lack of understanding regarding the inherent principles that guide ALL social interactions. This, coupled with the failure to address Feminism's damaging effects on their masculinity, becomes a recipe for disaster and ultimately results in failed social interactions.

Manhood 101 was created out of necessity-- to give these skeptical guys CLEAR DIRECTION and an ACCURATE DESTINATION, with one of the results being the ability to build lasting relationships with women. And the primary result being the restoration of their Manhood.

A: It's the stupidest name I could think of at the time. You could just as easily call me "Hamster Master." It really makes no difference to me.

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M101