hardcase wrote:Been lurking for some time. Read the ebook. Could use a kick in the ass.
I'm probably not as bad as I think. Maybe 1 in 4 girls I talk to go out with me. But I barely talk to 4 girls a year, and once I'm on the date, I'm pretty useless. I then obsess over the rejection to the point of paralysis and depression. I just can't seem to let go. I'm also confused because there's so much conflicting advice, and your ebook is scant on details beyond general principles and examples of colorful expression and checking bitch behavior. Like how, when and where do you touch her or kiss her? I'm always paranoid and anxious on dates because I worry that she'll judge me as a symp if I don't escalate fast enough, but I also worry that she'll judge me as a player/horny chump if I escalate too quickly.
So I'm hoping to get some clarification and guidance to get me out of this funk.
icthematrix wrote: Like a lot of guys, I just have a natural desire to make women happy. Beyond that, though, I had no personal experience of how a relationship should work when we got together. I was heavily influenced by pop culture (romantic movies, music, etc.)
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